How love should be

Love is the most often misspelled word, this is how it's spelled: forgives as many times as forgiveness is needed, doesnt disappear when times get hard, shows gratitude for no reason at all, love others especially when they are being unlovable, do whatever they can to help, reconcile when your the victim or offender, is patient and kind, avoids hurting others as much as possible, gets pissed off but wont mistreat the person that hurt them, shoulder is always ready for someone to cry on, will pay others bills before their own, sacrifice sleep just to listen to someone going thru, doesnt think only about themselves, offer to pay for dinner when your down to your last, makes other ppl problems thier main concern over their own, does things to put a smile on others faces, supports others in their goals, doesn't get bitter , isn't easily offended, WE CAN LOVE THE WAY CHRIST DID WITHOUT BECOMING SOMEONES DOOR MAT, THERE MUST BE BALANCE IN EVERYTHING WE DO, I GUARANTEE GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU IF YOU TAKE CARE OF OTHERS, A LOT OF US ARE TO CONSUMED WITH OURSELVES AND OUR PROBLEMS, YES YOU HAVE REASONS TO BE SELF FOCUSED BUT HOW CAN YOU LOVE OTHERS WITH PURE LOVE WHEN YOUR CONSUMED WITH YOURSELF, IT'S FUNNY HOW WE NOTICE OTHERS LACK OF LOVE TOWARDS US BUT DON'T NOTICE THE LACK OF LOVE WERE GIVING , CHRIST DEFINED IT, I JUST TRY TO LIVE BY IT,IF THESE CHARACTERISTIC AREN'T PRESENT IT ISN'T TRUE LOVE, BE BLESSED AND BE HAPPY

why worry?

">As humans we tend to worry about everything, from what were wearing to what were going to eat. All humans are created with a purpose, no matter what we believe and what religion we practice. I got a revelation from God one day and i wanted to share it, worry is a form of meditation that lowers our vibrational frequency which lowers our confidence and self esteem. we will begin to attract people with serious issues and may find yourself trying to fix other people problems.  our life becomes filled with all kinds of problems and issues, we loose sleep and fall into depression. this is how i use to live until i realized i didn't have to, God loved me so much, he wanted to carry all of my problems and give me guidance on the ones he felt would be beneficial to me and my life.  the odd thing was, i wasn't a Christian, i practiced all kinds of religions and didn't grow up in church. So to dangle in this large universe with no connection to my creator was normal to me, until God told me it wasn't, and his voice wasn't as loud as thunder like i expected, it was a still inner voice kinda like your conscious talking to you when your about to make a big mistake.  well i began reading the bible following a really huge break up with my 2nd boyfriend, as i read each day i became more aware of my surroundings and how they affected me as well as who i was and what i wanted out of life, after a year of reading and praying i grew spiritually more then most people i knew did in a whole lifetime. older people would ask my advice and the kicker was"they'd take it", this was the point in which worry was no longer an issue, if a problem occurred, and they usually do, i would ask myself what can i do and began to take those steps to fix whatever i was facing, if i couldn't do anything about it, i would tell God im leaving this problem at his feet, and if there was something i could do i would trust him to guide me"as he always did" he doesnt need me to reflect on the issue over and over, instead i reflect on the good things in my life and his promises that i learned from reading the bible,being a christian isn't a religion its a relationship, i talk to God he talks to me, i listen to him and he listens to me, it feels good to have the creator of the universe as a friend, and if i died and found God to be a lie, i wouldn't have lost not one single thing, but if i died and find him to be real but refused to acknowledge him, Id loose everything ..what is everything you ask? my soul the only thing that will be with me for ever. So the issues of this life pale in comparison to where im spending eternity , i choose to let that be my focus, and its a perfect antidepressant when you do all you can to live as a blessing to others.